Step 1: Score six prepopulated partner attributes 1-5 by importance (5 = most important). You can customize your preferences later. Step 2: Score a partner. Step 3: Take the W.O.R.T.H.Y. assessment.
Standards List (Peace of Mind – POM List)
Create a standard that all things are measured against.
The POM List is your personal contract with yourself — a written record of what you must have to feel safe, respected, and at peace in a relationship. No more settling. No more convincing yourself it's fine.
These 6 are just the starting point — add as many standards as you want, whenever you want. Nothing here is fixed.
This takes 2 minutes and becomes the standard every man gets measured against.
How To Use Your POM List
Step 1 of 3 — Score Your Standards
Tap a number for each — 5 is most important, 1 is least. You can change these later.
These 6 are just the starting point — add as many standards as you want, whenever you want. Nothing here is fixed.
Don't relate to one of these? Just tap 1 (least important) — you don't have to delete a standard to make it matter less.
Emotionally Available
Most important → Least importantCommunicates Openly
Most important → Least importantLoves Pets
Most important → Least importantMakes Me Feel Safe
Most important → Least importantSupports My Friendships
Most important → Least importantSpeaks To Me With Respect, In Public And Private
Most important → Least important